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catchall for lili
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coastal
2019-06-21 11:43 pm (UTC)
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Do I look like I care about popular opinion?
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leaberator
2019-06-22 03:46 am (UTC)
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[ cackles ]
Nah, you're pretty opinionated all by yourself.
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coastal
2019-06-23 09:48 pm (UTC)
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... you don't sound like you hate it, so.
Anyway, you still haven't explained yourself.
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leaberator
2019-06-23 10:06 pm (UTC)
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[ he sighs out in defeat ]
Yeah, I know.
[ why can't she just forget it? wow. he just. waves a hand vaguely ]
I'm kinda... I dunno that I've even got a handle on being a good friend, never mind holding down an actual
relationship
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coastal
2019-06-23 10:09 pm (UTC)
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[because lili's good at being persistent. but she'll keep eating the ice cream as he explains]
... does that mean that you're afraid to try?
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leaberator
2019-06-23 10:23 pm (UTC)
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Maybe. I dunno. I don't want to hurt her.
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coastal
2019-06-23 10:26 pm (UTC)
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.... even normal relationships aren't perfect, you know? Even if you were to just stay friends, you could just as likely hurt her.
But just because people get hurt, that doesn't mean that the entire bond you have between each other is bad...
[or else so many of lili's relationships have to be thrown out with the trash]
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leaberator
2019-06-23 10:42 pm (UTC)
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Yeah, I know.
[ intellectually, at least, tell that to his stupid heart. but: ]
I dunno. It just feels more... final, to mess up something like that. Broken hearts are a big deal.
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coastal
2019-06-23 10:48 pm (UTC)
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[ . . . ]
You really are soft...
It's not as though I'm advocating to treat people carelessly, but broken hearts can mend too. People can be a lot stronger than they think.
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leaberator
2019-06-23 11:12 pm (UTC)
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[ mock sulkily; ]
Hey, I'm plenty tough!
[ he likes to eat rocks. anyway. ]
I
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they can. ... But she's had it pretty rough already.
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coastal
2019-06-25 03:48 am (UTC)
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Maybe you're tough in other situations.
[compromise]
... but even if she has, I'm sure she can handle this. It's just the beginnings of romance, not life or death.
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leaberator
2019-06-25 04:32 am (UTC)
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... Yeah, it's just happening in the middle of the life or death stuff.
[ horrible, ]
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coastal
2019-06-25 04:33 am (UTC)
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... it'd be nice if we got to pick and choose when we were able to feel things.
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leaberator
2019-06-25 04:37 am (UTC)
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[ a beat ]
I wouldn't say that. Even if the timing's all wrong, it's always better to feel things.
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Nah, you're pretty opinionated all by yourself.
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Anyway, you still haven't explained yourself.
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Yeah, I know. [ why can't she just forget it? wow. he just. waves a hand vaguely ] I'm kinda... I dunno that I've even got a handle on being a good friend, never mind holding down an actual relationship.
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... does that mean that you're afraid to try?
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But just because people get hurt, that doesn't mean that the entire bond you have between each other is bad...
[or else so many of lili's relationships have to be thrown out with the trash]
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[ intellectually, at least, tell that to his stupid heart. but: ]
I dunno. It just feels more... final, to mess up something like that. Broken hearts are a big deal.
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You really are soft...
It's not as though I'm advocating to treat people carelessly, but broken hearts can mend too. People can be a lot stronger than they think.
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Hey, I'm plenty tough!
[ he likes to eat rocks. anyway. ]
I know they can. ... But she's had it pretty rough already.
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[compromise]
... but even if she has, I'm sure she can handle this. It's just the beginnings of romance, not life or death.
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[ horrible, ]
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I wouldn't say that. Even if the timing's all wrong, it's always better to feel things.